The 4 Best Ways To Make That Quickie Sex Sesh Worth It

Who said longer always means better?

Sara Faye Green |

Sometimes, you only have a finite amount of time to do the deed. But a tight schedule doesn’t mean your speedy sex sesh has to be less than incredible. There are plenty of tricks to make sure your quickie is one to remember – even if it barely lasts five minutes. Follow these four golden rules for making your power-sex count.

Use Your Words

Arousal for women begins in our heads, so pregame foreplay before you get home by trading some sexts about what you’re looking forward to. Continue the sex talk in person. The more you talk and the more sounds you make, the more turned on you’ll be, says sexologist Dr Emily Morse, host of the podcast .

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Create Some Buzz

The easiest way for women to orgasm is with a vibrator, according to multiple studies. So ask him to use a bullet vibe on your clitoris before sex or while he’s behind you during the deed, says sex coach Dr Jill McDevitt.

Stay A Little Dressed

Keeping some clothes on – like a skirt, your bra or even your undies (and pushing them to the side) – adds a sense of urgency to spontaneous sex, making it exponentially hotter.

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Go First

“Having him start by going down on you makes it all about your pleasure from the get-go,” says Dr Kristen Mark, director of the Sexual Health Promotion Lab in the US. Plus, it’s a short cut to quick lubrication when you’re mentally primed but not fully ready physically. Another pro tip: keep lube nearby.

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