How To Transform Your Sex Life In 2019, According To Your Star Sign
New Year’s resolutions don’t necessarily need to be about losing weight or getting fit. I mean, those are great goals and all, but resolving to give your sex life a boost is pretty legit way to kick off 2019, too.
Of course, knowing you want to mix things up a little in the bedroom and actually doing it are two totally different things. And sure, you can read up on ways to spice up your sex life, but not every move is necessarily going to be a good fit for you.
That’s why I consulted , a professional astrologer with a graduate degree in counseling psychology, for the DL on what the universe thinks you need to do to transform your sex life this year.
ARIES (MARCH 21–APRIL 19)
This year is all about risk-taking for you, Aries. Kick things off by trying things you might have hesitated about in the past, and be assertive about what you want in bed. Then, slow it down to a point where you feel comfortable. Heads up: A sensual massage can really get things going for you.
TAURUS (APRIL 20–MAY 20)
Let your imagination run wild, Taurus. Know that fantasy you’ve been kicking around in your head since forever? It’s time to break it out. Opening up and sharing your feelings with your partner will help you relax, enjoy, and finally get what you’ve been craving in bed.
GEMINI (MAY 21–JUNE 20)
You know what you want, Gem, so speak up already. Make sure you’re being clear about what you want, how you want it, and when you want it. This is the year to put some effort into developing your sensuality. You might just need to do a little schedule-juggling to make it happen.
CANCER (JUNE 21–JULY 22)
Don’t be afraid to branch out a little in the bedroom. Suddenly, things that you might have thought were kinky in the past may be just what your relationship needs to feel more fulfilled. This is a big year of growth for you in the bedroom.
LEO (JULY 23–AUGUST 22)
It’s time to bring the fun back to the bedroom, Leo. A little laughter and not taking things so seriously can help bring a much-needed spark to your sex life. In the moment, use your intuition to feel out the mood—then, let your gut be your guide for the ultimate sexual pleasure.
VIRGO (AUGUST 23–SEPTEMBER 22)
Mars, the planet of action and sex, starts the year in the part of your chart about sex and intimacy—score! Basically, you’re going to get laid a lot, and this is a good time to set the tone for the rest of the year. Just don’t forget to make time for romance in between all that banging. Knowing yourself and what you want is crucial for creating deeper intimacy (and better sex) this year.
LIBRA (SEPTEMBER 23–OCTOBER 22)
It’s time to be willing to change things up, Libra—it’ll end up with you having a much more satisfying sex life. Uranus, the planet of change, will be spending most of 2019 in the part of your chart that rules sex and intimacy so…what are you waiting for? Something as simple as adding sexy new lingerie to the mix can make a huge difference.
SCORPIO (OCTOBER 23–NOVEMBER 21)
This year is all about better communication in the bedroom, Scorpio—this can help you develop deeper intimacy and sexual satisfaction. Trust your partner in the process: It’ll help open you up in more ways than one. Just keep in mind that your partner may not be as intuitive as you, so don’t hesitate to speak up if you have needs that just aren’t being met.
SAGITTARIUS (NOVEMBER 22–DECEMBER 21)
The North node of the moon will be spending 2019 in the part of your chart about sex and intimacy, making it crucial that you share your feelings with your partner. Be honest about how you feel, even if you’re afraid of commitment and getting stuck in a situation. Also, take good care of your body, giving it food that nourishes—it’ll help feed your sensuality.
CAPRICORN (DECEMBER 22–JANUARY 19)
Don’t take things so seriously in the bedroom in 2019, Capricorn. Even something as simple as sharing a naughty joke with your partner will help you loosen up and feel more comfortable in bed. Try a little Netflix and chill with a good comedy. Once you’re at ease, things will just flow during sex.
AQUARIUS (JANUARY 20–FEBRUARY 18)
A happy mindset is crucial for you to have a better sex life this year, Aquarius. Make sure you communicate what you need, even if you aren’t sure if your partner is as open-minded as you are. They should come around and, if they don’t, it may be time to find a new bedmate.
PISCES (FEBRUARY 19–MARCH 20)
Enjoy your inner and outer beauty and just let yourself feel gorgeous. Pampering yourself will help you feel extra-confident in bed. And don’t shirk on the romance. Taking your time before you dive into sex—having a good meal, sharing wine with your partner, and enjoying some good music together—will put you at ease and help you feel ready to dive into pleasure when the time is right.
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